Appreciation in a relationship is the most important thing. If you are going to attend a party with your spouse. After dressing up, appreciate your partner dress and looks also. This will make them feel important and bind you together.
I can give you a scientific reason for this. There is a hormone name oxytocin, which is known as bonding hormone. Our body release this hormone if your hug lasts more than average hug time. Have an intention hug that lasts more than 20 seconds. This time is actually more than average hug time. This time is long enough for oxytocin to be released. This will bind you together and always.
You keep yourself busy in daily routines where kids, television, friends and social media are your regular companions. In between, you forgot to spend some alone time together, this may lead to unhappy married life. Spending some alone time with your partner is also important. So unplug your daily routine and spend some time together.
Giving surprise gifts to your partner makes your marriage more stronger. This will make the moment more special. Gift need not to be more expensive, it is always the thought that matters the most. Gift is always priceless, knowing the intention of your spouse. Gift your spouse, when your spouse is not expecting any surprise. This will chunk them and make them very happy.
When you first saw your spouse in this morning. Instead of any negative thinking or any tension between you. Always greet your spouse with lovely good morning. Your positivity can make your day and your partner’s day also. Greet with some statements like-“I am happily married with you”. “You are the best thing ever happen to me”. ”I always wants to see your face after I woke up”. “I am glad to wake up beside you.”
If you really want to live a happy married life, then communication holds the key. You and your spouse should be able to talk to each other. You should share your thought and opinions with each other. Doing regular communication, helps to strengthen your marriage and bind you together.
We are humans and we often commit some mistakes. Forgiveness plays a crucial role in happy married life. In marriage, we live with each other with day in and day out. In between, we often do some mistakes. If we keep reminding those mistakes, differences between you and your spouse will build up. You will start cursing each other. Then, cursing your spouse becomes a regular habit. Instead of this, if you start forgiving our spouse for those small mistakes. This will make our relationship stronger.
Respect is the first and foremost thing in any relationship. If you want to have a happy married life, then you have to respect your spouse and make him/her feel equal. If you don’t respect your spouse, then this will lead to an imbalance in your marriage. You have to listen and understand your spouse’s point of view. This will make them to feel like you care.